How to ruin yourself

The extreme method to destroy your inner self

Topu Mamun
4 min readJan 30, 2022
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Have you ever gone through a time when there is no one in the world who can help you? If you’re not. Congrats! You are the lucky one. And I hope you don’t get yourself in that position. But, if you want to … you can do the following.

  1. Overthinking
  2. Overrelying
  3. Becoming too emotional
  4. Being a nice person

Overthinking

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When I say overthinking. You seem like, oh what? You are giving a lecture? No mate. It’s serious. Overthinking kills you. Have you ever gotten in a situation where you say like, oh I need that pastry but the other one looks good? Or what about the vanilla one? Yes, That’s what I am talking about.

At first, it may seem like, hey, that’s my right to choose what I will eat. But mate, this expression becomes a habit. And later in life, you know what happens. You are bombarded with so many decisions and you choose a pastry that you don’t like. And welcome. You completed the first step to ruin yourself.

Overrelying

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On a cold morning, you go to your parents and ask them for a new jacket. And they reject you to give one. Now think of a cold morning you open your online shopping app and find a jacket that you love. And what? Guess it. You bought the jacket with your card.

I don’t know about you but the second one feels cooler isn’t it? But mate, we’re here to ruin ourselves. So we will be reliable to someone for any reason and blame someone we can’t see to make him repent in the future. Isn’t that cool. Congrats again! You have completed the second step to ruin yourself.

Becoming emotional

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Who didn’t cry in his life? I believe Hitler even cried when the doctor or whatever you want to call, slapped on this ass on his very first birthday. But my friend, have you ever tried to cry but expressed it by the word “depression”. If you’re, then, you’re one of the chosen ones to declare yourself ruined.

You don’t have to do anything. If you feel like, you can’t make any solution to your life problems. Become emotional. No one hears you properly, become emotional. Your computer crashes without any reason, become emotional. Declare yourself depressed. Problem solved. And you completed the third step to declare yourself ruined.

Being a nice person

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Who hates a nice person right? Hmm.. there’s a catch, that no one tells you. Let me tell you a story. I have got a friend who always does what he loves. He is so honest with himself. And doesn’t care about anyone. But in front of his so-called parents, he is so nice. If his parents want him to be a plumber he will be that though he likes painting. Isn’t that interesting.

So. see? My friend being nice returns a cost. And that can be dangerous. And hurray! That’s what we need to ruin ourselves. Being unconsciously nice to anyone and hampering your own emotions is not called giving or loving someone. It’s like killing you slowly. And if you do that, yeah my friend. You have completed the last step of ruining yourself. And you can proudly say you are ruined.

That was a short-listed way of ruining yourself. Make sure you comment down what others you have found by destroying your inner self. Because you may have become a pro on that. Why not help others.

[The whole writing above was a parody. This was to show how easily we can ruin ourselves and feel like shit. I believe wherever you live, you can relate a little bit to the above. So don’t feel alone. You got a new friend]

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